tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555754973440676058.post7103219298063623366..comments2024-01-11T11:42:05.457+01:00Comments on The Gay and Invisible Journal: Saturday Sex Date And Visit To The Gay Club | ❷Μ | ɛmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11850615952507880333noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555754973440676058.post-88248797029659117112014-09-17T18:53:47.065+02:002014-09-17T18:53:47.065+02:00I am very familiar with blown opportunities at sex...I am very familiar with blown opportunities at sex venues that I can never get back.<br /><br />I am not in any way trying to put down sex clubs, they can be lots of fun, but my partner and I met outside the gay venue. I know quite a few others with the same story. <br /><br />The gay scene is great for casual sex. Not saying that there is anything wrong with casual sex as long as it is safe sex. But as far as finding a partner, it does not often work.<br /><br />Do you have some interest that you are passionate about? Politics, sports, whatever? I met my partner because we have a common interest in weather. Then we found out we both were into golf and we started playing lots of golf. It is a slow sport, so there is plenty of time to talk during a 5 hour round.<br /><br />If you are hoping to find lasting love and not just casual sex, I could be on to something. Once you become good friends, a few extra pounds or physical imperfections becomes far less important.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10298823814652368029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555754973440676058.post-83734807848270704472014-09-16T06:04:39.207+02:002014-09-16T06:04:39.207+02:00Or... You delight in the fact that in a very short...Or... You delight in the fact that in a very short amount of time a complete stranger made you wonder at possibilities and you look forward to the many more to come cause those fleeting connections are so damn cool. And when it extends to longer, sustained connections without you compromising who you are... Even better.<br /><br />I remember partying with a bunch of strangers I just met til 4am in London and then waking up at 7 or 8 to go sightseeing. Now, I'm lucky if I don't throw in the towel by 10. And I'm completely fine with that. Ha!Brucehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06670970539093987978noreply@blogger.com