tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555754973440676058.post4897655861250849715..comments2024-01-11T11:42:05.457+01:00Comments on The Gay and Invisible Journal: Coming Out To My MotherΜ | ɛmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11850615952507880333noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555754973440676058.post-23987696700910605372015-04-30T13:54:26.759+02:002015-04-30T13:54:26.759+02:00Note: Sorry, it's: gninvisible@gmail.comNote: Sorry, it's: gninvisible@gmail.comΜ | ɛmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11850615952507880333noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555754973440676058.post-19184205593040533622015-04-30T13:38:50.722+02:002015-04-30T13:38:50.722+02:00Hi Max, I think it's perfectly normal to be co...Hi Max, I think it's perfectly normal to be confused about your sexuality at your age. For the moment, I feel you don't have worry too much about compartmentalized labels, being confused, or having the need to decide immediately what you are and what you like. Just take your time to explore. Go out with guys and go out with girls to see what comes.<br /><br />Some people know for sure which category they belong to when they're 5, and others might take a while before they "know for sure" depending on experience, willingness to experiment and the journey they go through.<br /><br />Are you concerned about some issues and would you like someone to talk to? If yes, you can send me an email at gninvisble@gmail.com.Μ | ɛmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11850615952507880333noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555754973440676058.post-38889943387419472502015-04-29T06:38:58.840+02:002015-04-29T06:38:58.840+02:00Hi I'm 13 and feeling REALLY confused about my...Hi I'm 13 and feeling REALLY confused about my sexuality so if anyone has any tips it would be a LITERAL life saverAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06043263643165635461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555754973440676058.post-85169483053295984512012-05-12T04:51:32.630+02:002012-05-12T04:51:32.630+02:00Hello Sweetheart! Long time no read.
I'd like ...Hello Sweetheart! Long time no read.<br />I'd like to make a point here: she's going through this too. Of course not in the same way you are, but you should know that most parents can't help feeling responsable for everything their children do or become.<br />To start, she raised you, so yes, whether you want to or not, you have to acknowledge that she built the foundations of your being. A lot of people contributed too, but the ones that were with you and maybe influenced you your whole life are very few and your mother is one of them.<br />On the other hand (assuming you are not adopted), half of your genes come from her. Yes this is a terrible excuse, but trust me, its reason enough for most parents to believe that what happens in your body is, in one way or the other, their responsability.<br />I know this is mostly your situation, but it's her situation too. Both your psychology and your biology have a strong link to hers, how strong depends a lot on your relationship with her, but still, the people with the most distant relationships with their parents have to acknowledge some influence in their behavior, and as for genes, well, you know how hard is to fight your own biology.<br />I'm just saying, don't forget she has to learn to deal with it too. She has to know that neither of you did nothing wrong. Thankfully you seem to be close and also you have your brother to play middle man, I'm sure you'll be alright.<br />Best regards.Night Readernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555754973440676058.post-50456495121045599202012-04-25T12:02:52.975+02:002012-04-25T12:02:52.975+02:00Thanks Paul!Thanks Paul!Μ | ɛmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11850615952507880333noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6555754973440676058.post-60824441750906037152012-04-23T14:17:20.724+02:002012-04-23T14:17:20.724+02:00Very very proud of you, this is a stepping stone t...Very very proud of you, this is a stepping stone to a happier you and you should be very happy with yourself for going through with it trusting your instincts, and everything being (kinda) ok.John Doehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08142751991159314073noreply@blogger.com